Showing posts with label dave. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dave. Show all posts

Sunday, July 27, 2025

DMB @ Ruoff 7.12.25

Went with my lovely lady to see Dave Matthews Band @ Ruoff Music Center in Noblesville, IN on the 12th. The band played on the 11th too but we aren't made of money.
Setlist:

It was a decent setlist. I've been spoiled by the Gorge. The setlists they play at the Gorge are really great. And Ruoff, since it is in the midwest, has a lot of rain so the stage and seating area has a roof which is weird to me, it isn't 100% open air. So me & my gal promised each other we would always gets seats -- the lawn looks terrible there.

The skies opened up about 2 hours before the show - I mean just poured cats & dogs. It was intense, and crazy rain. We stayed in the car mostly and didn't really have a big tailgate. 

We waited a half hour in line at the merch tent near the campground/parking area, and bought the 'weekend poster' and a t-shirt. The weekend poster features a red Bison. The tour poster for that particular night, shown here:       just wasn't as pleasing so we didn't buy it.




When we went to get in line to get inside the amphitheater, we waited in line for about an hour. Apparently they were trying to make sure it didn't rain again or delay the show. FINALLY we got in and got to our seats, ate some nachos, and then the band came out and performed. I am happy they played JTR (why wouldn't they, I mean, it rained a lot!) and Joyride was fun, I hadn't seen that one live yet.

Overall I give it a 3.5 stars out of 5. Decent, but not like going to the Gorge.


Fun times, though. 

The next weekend, we went and saw Kesha perform, which she put on a very good show as well. 

Monday, September 4, 2023

Happy Labor Dave Weekend!

I can't believe I've never told the story of my relationship with Dave Matthews Band's music before. I've ranked their songs on here and given brief introductions but I haven't explained myself properly, so I will do that now.

In 1997 I had met a girl who was into the same kind of music as me. It was the late 90's, you had Matchbox 20, Marcy Playground, Pearl Jam, etc. on the radio. I was getting tired of hearing the same old crap on the alternative jams, and this friend (I met her online, she lives in California) introduced me to Dave Matthews Band, and said she saw them live once and they were amazing.

I think I bought the "Crash" album before even listening to it, because she was raving about them so much. I instantly fell in love, and fast forward a year later, I was meeting Dave who kissed me on my "side-lip" area which was super cool. If I was a straight girl that would've been sexy. But, I'm not. I'm a big lesb. It was still great though. It's Dave Matthews, I mean. Superstar!

How did this come to be? Well another online friend of mine gave me their producer's contact information, and he and I began chatting. I visited him in the studio when he was producing an album for Guster, down in Sausalito, CA. That was neat, too. 

Anyway,  at first had all the studio albums but when my friend told me they were the best live in concert, I picked up a copy of Live @ Red Rocks and I was blown away! So I started trading tapes. Yes, tapes. This was the late 90's early 2000's when we used cassettes still. Anyway so I had this huge collection of live Dave Matthews Band concerts, going as far back as 1992 (they formed in 1991). Some rare, and some fan favorites. I honestly am not sure what happened to them all but I have an idea they might be in my step-father's attic. 

Anyway I went to my first Dave show in 1998. 5.17.98 at the Shoreline Amphitheater in Mountainview, CA with my California friend. Her favorite song at the time was Crash Into Me and she just thought Dave was so hot, and adorable. So he sang Crash Into Me and looked right into the camera at one point in the song, and it looked like he was looking right into HER eyes, it was pretty cool. I had a blast, and I agreed they were amazing to watch live. Thus began my adventures with seeing Dave at the Gorge, the big amphitheater in the middle of the state of Washington (where I am from). It became an annual pilgrimage for me, my friends, and many others across the country (and even the world) to see them perform live every Labor Day weekend (beginning of Sept or late August in the US if you didn't know). It's affectionately referred to as "Labor Dave" for obvious reasons. The Gorge is seated atop a, well, Gorge, overlooking the beautiful and might Columbia River that cuts the state of Washington in half. It's majestic views are one of the main reasons people love it so much, I think.

When I met my now mate (of the soul variety), she liked them but had never seen them live, so we started seeing them at the Gorge. We have many excellent memories of these times. From tailgating, drawing DMB Firedancers on my arm (that's the Dave symbol), to the beer we drank, to the songs we loved. It's labor Dave weekend right now which is why I am writing this. Here are some pictures from the Gorge:

The Gorge 

Columbia River

Gorge @ Sunset

Dave @ the Gorge

Gorge Lights

More lights

Their lights are the best. Long live Fenton!

kit10phish @ the Gorge

kit10phish

From the lawn section

OMG look how fat I was










Saturday, April 24, 2021

All The Colors Mix Together, to...

 


As any of you would know, I am a big Dave Matthews Band fan. So recently, the mate and I did a little music project where we ranked each song from their studio albums from least favorite to most favorite. The list is somewhat surprising, because since this project required a lot of listens, a lot of songs I didn't know as well or listen to as much became higher on the list.

All in all it was a fun project and I'd do it again for a different favorite. I guess I should just Dive In.


Least Favorite to Most Favorite Dave Matthews Band studios:

First, the "Skips"::

Where Are You Going - Somehow my most hated song of theirs. I'm not even really sure why. Something about it just really rubs me the wrong way. Might be the melody, the tune, the words, I don't know.

Sleep To Dream Her - This song just annoys me and I skip it. 

Christmas Song - I am not a christian so it doesn't tick any of my boxes. Also, I don't like the way Dave sings it. 

Let You Down - Even the band doesn't like their own song. This one is a major skip. It's been played a few handful of times but that's it.

Mother Father - You'd think a Santana song would be uplifting but... no I just really don't like it. Skip.

Say Goodbye - A Fan favorite. During the concerts I go to the port o potty during this one... or go get another beer. It's a song about adultery and one night stand.. no thank you.

Lover Lay Down - A song about Dave wanting to get some girl in the sack that he's beon pining for. Not a terrible song, but it just doesn't do anything for me, so I skip it.



Now, for the "Meh" group ::

#35 - Too short to be a real song but I can dig where they were going with this.

When I'm Weary - Kind of annoying but I don't hate it as much as Lover Lay Down. Something about the way the lyrics are sung bothers me.

Belly Full - A short, sweet song, nothing special 

Pay For What You Get (Remember Two Things version) - This song is an older one so it's been heard. Been there done that.

Steady As We Go - Kind of boring.

Baby Blue - Another slightly annoying song, kind of boring, nothing I can even remember right now

I'll Back You Up - Another fan favorite that I don't really jive with that well. Maybe I used to really like it but you know when you hear it a lot it goes down hill.

Here On Out - Just not that memorable of a song.

Dreams of Our Fathers - The song where Dave sings about his kids (with exception of one or two) bug me. Probably because I don't have kids.

Mercy - Another "If we work together we can change the world song" - nah

Stolen Away on 55th & 3rd (Is that the song name? I always just refer to it as "stolen away") - Another slightly annoying song, I don't like the way the lyrics are sung/melody.

The Song That Jane Likes (R2T Solo Acoustic) - His voice was verrrrry nasal in this draft.

Angel - This song is annoying but not as bad as "When I'm Weary".

 


Now some "Okay/Neutral" songs. ::

Dream Girl - This song is alright. Nothing special. But I would enjoy it live.

When The World Ends - Another song that I've heard too many times to enjoy

Everybody Wake Up - Another "If we work together we can change the world song"

Fool To Think - A song about a possible missed connection. Not bad but the song is just ok.

Hunger For The Great Light - A song about oral sex. Well, aren't all Dave songs about oral sex mostly?

Out of My Hands - getting a little dark, but it  is a pretty good song.

Come on, Come on - Just ok. Doesn't do much for me but I wouldn't get up during the concert.

 #34 - A tribute/memorial song. It really is a lovely little jam.

Come Tomorrow - Another song about children and what will they experience when their world is older?

Snow Outside - This is alright. Nothing importantly special for me.

Do You Remember - I do not like the way it is sung but I like the music a lot.

Song That Jane Likes - Full band version, very good but just a little to mellow for me.

Typical Situation - This song is another one about changing the world, I think. It is alright.

Satellite  (R2T version) - Just ok. The other version is much more lively and full sounding.

Crash Into Me - Another instance of hearing it too often. Makes the heart grow less fonder, I think. A good song, but I don't like to hear it much.

Kit Kat Jam - On the Lillywhite Sessions this song has lyrics. On the official studio album "Busted Stuff" it does not which makes it farther down the list than it would have been.

Mercy (Live) - This version is a little better. I like the jam.

Belly Belly Nice - Peach juice dripping down your face (oral sex) anyone?

Proudest Monkey - Dave sings about monkeys a lot.

Minarets - This song is dope live but the studio version is so mellow.

Pig - I used to really love this one but it's alright now.

That Girl Is You - Again, live this one is awesome - especially with the Preservation Jazz Hall Band, but unfortunately the studio version sounds like Dave is skinning a cat. Stop drinking milk, dude.

Broken Things - Not bad not great.

Satellite - I do like this song, but decided I wouldn't rate it above the rest. This is the "Under The Table and Dreaming" version. More gusto!

 


 

Now for the "Good" list. Songs I do like much more :: 

Bkdkdkdd - A very small/short little jam on "Come Tomorrow". It sounds like the beginning of "Be Myself" which is one I figured and hoped they'd put on an album. Hmm..

American Baby - Pretty good song. But I'm not sure if Dave sings "Stay... American Baby" or "Stay American, baby."

Cry Freedom - A song about SA's apartheid. Very powerful.

American Baby Intro - Love the jam here.

What Would You Say - I know, right? Thought this one would be lower but it is a pretty funky bluesy hip song to jive around to.

Dancing Nancies - Dave solo acoustic live version. Nothing special but a damn good song.

Old Dirt Hill - Bring that beat back!! Yes! Great jam, good aesthetics in my head to this one. Riding your bike, kissing under a railroad trestle... etc

Spoon - Album version features Alanis Morrisette. I like it. But live... features Brandi Carlile @ the Gorge back in the day - so good!

Recently - Another good one although I indeed have listened to this one way too many times.

Spaceman - A lovely song.

Smooth Rider - A song about me. JK really though, too short - they should have had a jam on this one.

Can't Stop - Better than the original Batson Sessions version, but a lot of fun especially live.

What You Are - A pretty raucous track, this one also is especially fun live.

Seven - Another dirty song. Dave?

Everyday - The video features a dude hugging everyone he sees which is kinda cool. It's a sweet song.

Idea of You - I won't pull your hair or kick your shin... I swear.

Ants Marching - R2T version (live) so this is a great song but back on their early days it just wasn't as full sounding, it was still pretty mellow.

Again and Again - I like this one, and I think I may have seen it live but I can't recall.

Virginia In The Rain - At first this one was too boring but I love the melody now.

Time Bomb - Another fun jam live, and on the studio not bad.

I Did It - Hated this one when I first heard it (I was mad about the Lillywhite Sessions) but I dig it now, it is a fun little ditty

The Dreaming Tree - What a lovely, beautiful song

Drunken Soldier - I remember seeing this one at the Gorge, wow! Good one.

Granny - Ahhh yes, everyone's super fan favorite. But the studio version isn't as good as live.

Tripping Billies - R2T version - fun but not as full sounding.

So Much To Say - Should link y'all to my mate's dance on video she did to this one. She won 2nd place at a talent show.

Best of What's Around - A fun song.

Gaucho - Would be better live, without the kids' choir.

Gaucho Live - That's better.

Grace is Gone - Aw, love this one. I liked the Lillywhite Sesh version until I heard the beginning of this version and like this one better now.

Sweet - This is a cute song, rare one I like, bout teaching his son to swim.

Too Much - The ultimate concert/festival song - over indulgence. So me.

Stay (Wasting Time) - This is always a fun one. I used to not like the "lovely ladies" on it but I do now. 

Lying In The Hands of God - A good one, be even better live?

Lying In The Hands of God (Live) - Yes.

The Riff - It grew on me. This one used to be just a "ok"

Beach Ball - Good fun song. I hope someone actually rolls around a beach ball during this one live. They prob have.

Rooftop - I used to also not like this one as much as I do now. Good song!!



Now we're at the AWESOME ones!! ::


Drive In Drive Out - A fun, funky song to jam to, especially live.

Captain - This version was not IMO as good as the Lillywhite Sessions but it grew on me. It's got some jazzy funky-ness going on

Busted Stuff - Catch myself singing this one sometimes.

Sweet (Live) - Love the ukulele.

She - Rock out, Dave!

Black and Blue Bird - This is a sweet little song, love the part about Stardust and Canis Major.

Dive In - Love the way this one is sung and the melody. It is nice.

Lie In Our Graves - Getting into jam territory! Love the message of this one. Why lie in our graves dreaming of things that we might've been could've been, maybe?

Tripping Billies (Crash version) - Funky, fresh, hip... fun as an encore or set closer.

Ants Marching - The fan icon song. Tons of fun live, but also this studio version is spotless.

Shake Me Like a Monkey (Live) - So fun. Yes yes Dave you like to go down on your wife, we get it!

Diggin' a Ditch - Who doesn't unplug everything and take a hot bubble bath while listening to music and sipping on wine?

If Only - A good song about 'wanting you back' - my favorite from Away From The World I believe.

 Funny The Way It Is - I used to get this one mixed up with You Never Know - it's like a continuation of that one if you ask me. 

You Never Know - Love this one. You just really never know - I mean, so funny the way it is!

Samurai Cop (Oh Joy Begin) - This one makes me cry especially thinking about it in terms of myself, like my mom gives birth to me and my joy begins, makes me think of her and I miss her.

Louisiana Bayou - Fun, funky, I can see myself blasting this one while walking down the streets of the French Quarter soon

Rapunzel - Oh yes, he never sings about oral sex does he? Anyway a fun really funky jam

You & Me (live) - Another sweet one. You and me together, we can do anything, baby - pack your bags, something small..

The Last Stop - Perhaps their most crazy powerful RAAWWWWWWRRRRR song that they have next to Don't Drink The Water. BAM in your face.

Alligator Pie (live) fun and funky and again, I'm so going to blast this one in the french quarter soon...

Why I Am - love the nods to Leroi (late sax player) in this one.

Shake Me Like A Monkey (studio version) - I like this one more than the live one included on the album simply because Dave's voice doesn't crack.

 You & Me (studio) - A sweet one.

Two Step - Man this song live... I have no words. 18 minute jam anyone? Go watch the Summer Tour Warm Up 9.8.12 from California. Holy hell. A monster. But the studio here, is super good. Tim Reynolds for the win!

Squirm - A funny story. At the Gorge some dude vomited in the row in front of us and the band started playing Squirm "...Open up your mouth... it's coming out..." so great.

Hello Again - Singing about murder. Good old murder. Dave's sister when he was young was killed by her husband and I think this song is about that.

Seek Up - Studio version is kinda weak, a little lacking in the "OOMF" department. But live, wow!

Dancing Nancies - Again live this is better, but this studio version is damn good and so much fun to sing to. Could I have been anyone other than me?

Warehouse - This warehouse frightens me. No, for real. Live it makes wind blow, but this studio version, very very good.

Bartender - Oh man, he gives it his absolute ALL in this one, especially the Lillywhite Sessions version, but this one they put a little more thought into and it sounds really great.

Halloween - Oh my god talk about RAW pure emotion. Dave screams not to scream for screaming's sake but to show how horrible he felt when the song was written - We've all been there with a torn up heart before.

Big Eyed Fish - A cautionary tale? A cute tale? A song about monkeys and fish? Yes, all of that.

The Stone - Triumphantly epic, moody, and beautiful lyrics. I was just hoping that you'd come along, hold up my head when my head won't hold on... I'll do the same if the same's what you want, if not I'll go...

You Might Die Trying - This jam has got me. And the lyrics though there aren't many, are damn good. Sing along at a campfire perhaps?

One Sweet World - A song about saving the planet. Done in an upbeat, fun, funky, fresh, and  totally sing-along-able way!



Top 5, Drum Roll please!!

Rhyme & Reason - Singing about the lowest point in your life but while nearly screaming your head off about it... yes.

Jimi Thing - Who hasn't just sat back and relaxed, smoked some weed and had a drink or two whilst contemplating the ills that befall us? Now, the live version is um.. well, I think the longest Jimi Thing was over 20 minutes long. Fuck yeah that jam. 

Crush - Me and my mate's love song! While not just a romantic love song, but man that jam at the end.. hell yes.

Don't Drink The Water - I have native sympathy. Always have. Love the culture, the music, and their history make me angry. And this song... stirs all of that up. Album version is kinda slow. But deep and powerful. Live though, just go home after this one, it's all you need to pump you the fuck up.

And my #1 all time favotie Dave Matthews Band song is...

Grey Street - She thinks hey, how could I come to this? I've dreamt myself a million times around the world, and can't seem to get out of this place! A song about a sad girl. Depression has hit us all at one point or another, and this song hits it square in the head. It isn't just the words/lyrics. The melody, and the harmony between the violin (Boyd Tinsley rest in... whatever you're resting in) and saxophone are triumphantly gorgeous. The whole song is brought together by the sensation that when you're sad... all the colors mix together, to grey.


There you have it, every Dave song on the studios ranked. I'm spell checking and such, but if I don't catch something, pardon me. Anyway a lot of these, after several listens, was a surprise to me.

I would love to see YOUR list, so if you do make one, let me know!

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

Dave Matthews Band Songs: Ranked

 If you know me, or even anything about me at all, you know I am a Dave Matthews Band fan. Since 1997! They have a very large catalogue of songs, and for the fun of it, I thought I would rank the songs from my favorite to my least favorite. I got the inspiration to do this from my mate kit10phish, because she is doing that with the Indigo Girls, of which she is a big fan of. You can find her blog here: http://kit10phish.wordpress.com

Now a disclaimer: I am a big Dave fan. A Davehead, if you will. BUT... a lot of these fan favorite songs are not on my "Awesome" list because I have heard them sooooo many times that I've just gotten exhausted of them. So don't get upset if you see YOUR favorite on my "meh" list or something.

I included songs from Dave's solo album, and a few of these also might be live-only, but if they're played a lot they ended up here.

I have set this up in terms of Awesome, Great, Good, and Meh. Originally, the categories were "Fave", "Good" "Okay" and "Not Fave." But I realized even their worst (in my opinion) songs are still pretty damn good. So please remember this is MY opinion, and probably nowhere near the same opinion as anyone else. I have unique tastes. Later, I plan on ranking their albums (not including live... there's like 50 Live Trax and other live releases and that would take way too long to try and rank). 




Awesome

Grey Street

Don't Drink The Water

Jimi Thing

Rhyme & Reason

Crush

You Might Die Trying

One Sweet World

The Stone

Halloween

**Whenever I see them live and they play these songs, I get super excited. I won't say 'freak out' because I keep my cool on the exterior. But I am always super happy.

Great

Tripping Billies

Bartender

Warehouse

Seek Up

You Never Know

Dancing Nancies

The Last Stop

Stay

Two Step

#41

Stay or Leave

Corn Bread

Lie In Our Graves

Sweet Up & Down

Drive In, Drive Out

Drunken Soldier

Shake Me Like a Monkey

You & Me

So Right

Big Eyed Fish

If Only

Sweet

#27

Dreaming Tree

Eh Hee

Rooftop

Why I Am

Squirm

You & Me

Samurai Cop (Oh Joy Begin)

Can't Stop

She

Come Tomorrow

Diggin a Ditch

Gravedigger

Captain

Grace is Gone

Dodo

Too High

Stay or Leave

Minarets

I Did It

 

**These songs are on my top list for enjoyment when seeing them live and I am always happy to witness these get played.

 

Good 

 

Satellite

Ants Marching

Granny

Recently

Song That Jane Likes

Raven

#40

So Much to Say

Too Much

So Damn Lucky

Typical Situation

Cry Freedom

What You Are

Everyday

PNP--> Rapunzel

Pig

Out of My Hands

Old Dirt Hill

Alligator Pie

Time Bomb

Louisiana Bayou

The Idea of You

The Space Between

Broken Things

The Riff

Snow Outside

Funny The Way It Is

Lying In The Hands of God

Dive In

Spaceman

Seven

Baby Blue

That Girl Is You

Pay For What You Get

Idea of You

Virginia In The Rain

Again and Again

Come on Come on

Do You Remember

Crash Into Me

Kit Kat Jam

Busted Stuff

Save Me

Trouble

Oh

Up Up & Away

When The World Ends 

If I Had It All

Angel

Fool To Think

 

** These songs are ok, some of them are really good but just played way too much. Others are just not catchy or just not even played often enough to register on the rating scale very much.

 

Meh 

 

Where Are You Going

True Reflections

Christmas Song

I'll Back You Up

Say Goodbye

What Would You Say

Stolen Away on 55th

Some Devil

Belly Belly Nice

Mercy

Gaucho

Belly Full

Here On Out

Let You Down

Lover Lay Down

Proudest Monkey

When I'm Weary

Grey Blue Eyes

An' Another Thing

Baby

Dreams of Our Fathers

Mother Father 

Sleep to Dream Her

 

** Ok these songs aren't terrible, I just really don't prefer them, and I will skip over them if i can, or, if at a concert, these are my bathroom break songs. 


If I forgot any songs please let me know.


 

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